The Hitch Doctor- Online Dating advice
Lonely heart’s Guide to Dating Online
Unlike less ethical competitors, here at Hitch365 we pride ourselves on the huge volume of those genuinely looking for a relationship. However, with a daunting number of potential contacts we want this service to work for you (so you can tell your friends what a great site we have!). So, in no particular order, here is a beginner’s guide to getting you on the right track….
No.1 Be honest. Fun as it may be to pretend you’re a bronzed Adonis or a statuesque dead ringer for Eva Mendes, your talking up will ultimately lead to disappointment. We are a GENUINE service with tangible results, so it will not help your cause, feeding disappointment to those seeking someone. And, who knows what could have happened if you had been honest in the first place?!
No.2 Be Brave and don’t always operate in your comfort zone. One of the beauties of online dating is to specify to a fine detail what you are looking for. However, use with caution. You may be missing out on the potential love/date of your life because you are only considering left-handed 5 foot 6 blondes whose first name has to have at least three syllables.
No.3 Flesh your profile out. Effort should be made to fill out as much of your profile as possible – including a recent photo. Of course, some mystery is great but a lack of effort on this suggests a lack of effort on a date or in life. And it’s worth trying to get noticed from the masses!
No.4 Take the personality test and all the other tools at hitch365 that we provide. In a similar vein to no.3, this is worth doing as you may discover some hidden talents about yourself which could leave your prospective partners fascinated
No.5 Meet expectations. It makes sense for you to match up with people with similar expectations for using our great service. Appealing as it may be to try and get someone round to share last night’s takeaway whilst you’re sitting in your pants it’s not really sending out the right message to someone if they’re looking for dinner, cocktails and romance. That said, if someone’s interests include ‘leftovers’ and ‘not bothering to get dressed’ then go for it!
No.6 And last but not least- be pro-active! Don’t lose heart if you dip your toe in and, within a week, you’re not hitched. Internet dating is a great avenue to meet the person of your dreams and is quickly becoming the solution for people with busy lives. For that reason, and the number of people on the lookout, it may take a few days for an interested party to get back to you. Put yourself out there, take your time and your prospects will look rosy...
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Please revisit this page for more dating advice, and anecdotes from the Doctor on a regular basis. We would love to hear any tips from you guys, experiences from the sight or general feedback. Drop us an e-mail on thedoctor@hitch365.co.uk.
Regards,
The Doctor
